Body’s coping strategy of stress. A person who cant cope with stress will then avoid all stress and confrontation. this can go on to an unhealthy degree where even a person’s personal needs are not met. i think when a person is hyper, its a time where the brain moves so fast negative thoughts don’t have a chance to stick.
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I wanted to save this for myself.
“Be soft. Do not let the world make you hard. Do not let pain make you hate. Do not let the bitterness steal your sweetness. Take pride that even though the rest of the world may disagree, you still believe it to be a beautiful place. -Iain Thomas”
Hi, my name is Sara marie and I’m being abused. I’m being abused in a way that outside people wouldn’t know the difference. I’d been quiet for a few reasons, I didn’t wanna be forced to leave my home, I was too scared to tell anyone because of my dad, and I was just too scared what would happen.
I want to say this, I can not afford to live alone.. so please… just don’t. People saying shit like that is why I never opened up much.
I grew up in a world driven by fear. An abusive family that wanted to control me. People strove to control me by saying they were right, I was wrong. They were better than me. They has more rights than me, I was less than human.
I learned that bullying someone was strength, and that being right was strength. not showing emotion was strength, not showing pain.